1. devoted to or caring only for oneself; concerned primarily with one's own interests, benefits, welfare, etc., regardless of others.
2. characterized by or manifesting concern or care only for oneself: selfish motives.
Since President Monson's amazing What Have I Done for Someone Today talk, I have found myself in the realization of how easy it is to become selfish in day to day activities:
- Get up
- Eat Breakfast
- Go to Work
- Study for School
- Go Home
Yet the truthful thought of such a lifestyle is that is it ABSOLUTELY MISERABLE. Such a life is lived with no motive, love or desire for good.
Consider the following scenarios:
- An honor student with an notable GPA claims the Summa Cum Laude award vs. an honor student who helps his/her friend pass a chemistry test.
- An employee who is concerned about getting to the top vs. an employee who seeks to build up a positive work environment by fostering good employee relations
- A Christian who knows of Christ vs. a Christian who lives a Christlike life.
You see, selfishness is a result of a natural tendency to live life, "just because." President Monson said, "We become so caught up in the busyness of our lives. Were we to step back, however, and take a good look at what we’re doing, we may find that we have immersed ourselves in the “thick of thin things.” In other words, too often we spend most of our time taking care of the things which do not really matter much at all in the grand scheme of things, neglecting those more important causes."
I have found that life have so much more meaning when it is spent in the service of others. I love the scripture found in Proverbs 3:27
"Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it."
So the question becomes, to Be or Not to Be: